Secrets have never been known to form a good foundation for any relationship. A person’s lifestyle is clear after you date them only for a short while. It is, however, possible that the person will keep some dark secrets and try to shield them so that you never know of them. Everything can be brought to the light if you feel that something is being unduly kept in the dark and you wonder what it is.
If you don’t know enough or much about your partner’s parents, there may be some reasons for this. He may shelve the topic lest you say you want to meet his parents. Another thing may be that he does not have a good relationship with the parents and doesn’t want you to know the reason.Whatever the reason is, you must establish where they come from and where they grew up so that you can continue with the relationship.
So long as you don’t know his friends, do not be at peace.Be careful not to be going out with someone who always talks about meeting his friends who seem to be virtual. He may be using it to get to something or someone he doesn’t want you to know about.Again, He might actually have friends but may be afraid you will not approve of them, or they may not approve of you. Regardless of the reason, so long as you want to know the truth, consider using some force so that you are kept in the light.
Surely, you might have some idea about what he partner does for a living, yet he never talks about it. He may be either jobless or doing what he didn’t say he does.
You need to worry why he fails to mention the names in his past relationships. Reasons may abound as to why he refrains from mentioning the names. The reason for this may be that they are still good friends. They may hate the memory of their past messed up relationships. For whatever reason that may be the case, establish and ensure that there is nothing dangerous in secrecy.
Your new man may not be the angel he portends to be.Although rare, you may be lucky, and he can merely be ashamed of the lack of his etiquette and eloquence skills. Worth noting is the fact that as long as a man is serious in the relationship, he will scarcely hesitate to take you to his home so that you know the place and how he lives. He will try all means for you to know his place.
Do not allow your newly found man to get away with keeping you in the dark and then taking advantage of you.